My Birthdee

One thing I secretly love (now not so secretly) about Facebook is that so many people come out of the woodworks to wish you a Happy Birthday: people you met in a bar 4 years ago, your friends’ parents, old co-workers that you never see anymore, second cousins, etc. I love it. Thanks to everyone who sent their warm wishes.

This year’s birthdee proved to be one of the best ever. After an amazing brunch complete with bacon, German pancakes, Jared’s amazing breakfast sandwich secret ingredient (maple syrup), homemade bloody mary mix, a birthday banner station, tons of treasures, mimosa explosions, and a spanking machine, we went to quiet dinner with our roommate Chris.

While at dinner, Taylor arranged for a group of my friends to arrive with streamers, balloons, pots and pans, and kazoos and surprise me with my very own Winnie the Pooh parade. It was one of the most thoughtful gifts I’ve ever received. Thank you to my wonderful friends, Taylor, and everyone who showed up to brunch for making my birthday so amazing. You each make my life so meaningful and I love you all so much.

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I wanted to document what was perhaps the cutest moment of the day. My friends, Royal and Danielle, have the most adorable son, Issac, and this was one of our adorable interactions:

Isaac: “Hey Jason, do you have a mommy?”
Me: “Yes, but she died a little while a go.”
Isaac: “Why?”
Me: “Well, she got kind of sick and wasn’t feeling very good.”
Isaac: “Oh…”
I start to walk away to check on the bacon.
Isaac: “Hey, Jason! What was your mommy’s name?”
Me: “Aww.. It was Sharon.”
Isaac leaves with his parents and they drive home.
Isaac says to Danielle: “I’m sad Jason’s mommy died, because I wanted to see how pretty she is.”

Isn’t that so cute? Gosh, I love that little stinker!



Here’s Isaac modeling his Bea-Day shirt.

The Tree of Life

The Tree of Life has divided film critics and it certainly has been polarizing in my household. My roommates thought it was heavy-handed, boring, pretentious, and I’m pretty sure they wanted to gouge their eyes out. I, on the other hand, thought it was a lovely, impressionistic film about ordinary moments in the context of all existence. I left the movie feeling better about how our “nothingness” compares to the grandiosity of the universe. Other than the BBC television series Planet Earth, I don’t think a movie has ever made me feel that way before.

The story ultimately follows the universe from its creation to its destruction. The central plot focuses on a man, Sean Penn, who reflects upon his upbringing. In regards to this upbringing his father, Brad Pitt, represents nature and his mother, Jessica Chastain (who I love), represents grace. The flow of the story is vague, dark, and at times confusing, but you’re never totally lost. Cinematographically, this movie is very beautiful. It feels like “stock photography” sometimes, but it is still lovely.

Now I totally understand how this movie rubs people the wrong way, and on a different day it might have done the same to me. But the more I was able to remove myself from a typical moviegoing experience, the more I was able to feel like I was watching a work of art unfold. A lot of this movie didn’t make much sense. One doesn’t see all of the details or hear all of the words of the story. In many ways it is like watching a Renoir on screen, faces disappearing, voices whispering, colors blending into the landscape, and all that you’re really left with is an impression of what happened. When I think of The Tree of Life in that sense, then I think it is a beautiful and successful film.

I imagine there will come a time to watch and appreciate this movie. It may not be today, but one day when you really feel like it, check it out.






Egg Wonk 2

Flo or Gertie left us another mysterious egg creation. We did NOT eat this one nor did we open it. I still hope that one day we get an egg within an egg.

Cross your fingers!



Photo by Taylor Colledge

Best Movies of 2011

I finally finished my list of favorite movies of 2011. Of course there are a few movies from 2011 that I would still like to see, such as The Descendants, Shame, The Skin I Live In, and We Need To Talk About Kevin, but I suppose they will have to wait.

Three films that just missed the cut but I wanted to applaud are The Future, The Tree of Life and Young Adult, all of which I enjoyed immensely.

Let me know your favorites! Here are mine:

1. Drive
2. Bridesmaids
3. The Muppets
4. Midnight in Paris
5. Weekend
6. Warrior
7. Bill Cunningham New York
8. Beginners
9. Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part 2
10. The Help
11. Rango
12. Crazy, Stupid, Love
13. The Debt
14. Melancholia
15. X Men: First Class


Best Albums of 2011

Nothing makes me happier than a difficult list to make, and this was a difficult one! If there are two albums that I feel the worst about not including they would be Gillian Welch’s The Harrow and The Harvest and Washed Out’s Within and Without. Both are gorgeous albums that I loved.

Let me know your favorites! Here are mine:

1. Fleet Foxes, Helplessness Blues
2. M83, Hurry Up, We’re Dreaming
3. Beirut, The Rip Tide
4. Bon Iver, Bon Iver
5. Youth Lagoon, The Year of Hibernation
6. Yelle, Safari Disco Club
7. The Antlers, Burst Apart
8. The Weeknd, House of Balloons
9. SebastiAn, Total
10. Beyoncé, 4
11. Tennis, Cape Dory
12. Alexander, Alexander
13. James Blake, James Blake
14. Emmylou Harris, Hard Bargain
15. Various Artists, The Book of Mormon


Paper Moon

At the ripe age of 18 I bumped into Tatum O’Neal at a Starbucks during my first trip to New York City. I noticed her dog before I noticed her and I even bent down to say hello. With a scowl on her face, Tatum growled her way passed me and my friends with her dog in tow. We all concurred that she was a huge bitch.

Recently I finally watched Paper Moon, the 1973 movie for which Ms. O’Neal became the youngest person ever to win an Oscar for Best Actress in a Supporting Role. As a humungous fan of Madeline Kahn (who lost the Oscar to Tatum), I thought that I would watch this movie and hate Tatum even more than I already did. Instead, she won me over entirely and this movie is one of my latest favorites.

The movie follows a con man with an orphaned daughter of a prostitute. They persistently con their way in and out of trouble and establish a beautiful relationship along the way. It was one of the sweetest and funniest films I’ve seen in a long time. Madeline Kahn was amazing and hilarious in this movie.

Tatum was truly incredible in this movie and gave one of the finest child performances I’ve ever seen. (Also check out Ponette, In America, I am Sam, The Piano and The Professional).




School Portrait

I came across School Portrait on accident and I’m so glad I did. I thought it was going to be an annoying public service announcement on everything wrong with our world. Instead it made me feel really good.

Just watch it.

We Found Love

Rihanna’s We Found Love is easily one of my favorite music videos of all time. We went to LICK! on Saturday and this song nailed it. I die every time I hear it.

Listen and watch if you haven’t already!

Comme Un Enfant

J’adore!

Watch this for fun times:

My dog is a cat

Mongolia!

I just randomly came across this cute clip of children in Mongolia looking at Polaroids of themselves. It made me smile big.

Notchless Tape Dispenser by Mamoru Yasukuni

Today I saw this tape dispenser on Daily Icon and I really want one.

“Notchless is an adhesive tape dispenser which leaves clean, straight edges without zig-zags on cut tape, simply by tearing it on the edge of a blade in the same easy way as with conventional tape dispensers. Adhesive tape without zigzags has an attractive appearance, and it does not break up when peeled as does tape cut with conventional dispensers. It thus has the advantage of not causing stickiness or dirtiness at the cut edge, increasing the utility of adhesive tape. This patented blade technology cuts adhesive tape with a straight edge in an easy and safe manner.”






All That Heaven Allows

My dog, Alfie, woke me up at 4 AM the other night, barking hysterically. After I calmed him down I found myself wide awake and so decided to find any boring, old movie that would put me back to sleep. I combed Netflix looking for anything that sounded stale enough, and I came across Douglas Sirk’s 1955 classic starring Jane Wyman and Rock Hudson. The next thing I knew, it was 7:00 AM, I was obsessed with Rock Hudson and I had just finished watching one of most enjoyable melodramatic movies I’d ever seen.

The movie reminded me of Todd Haynes’ Far From Heaven in that it critiques the closed-minded, conformity-obsessed 1950s. I loved Far From Heaven and I loved All That Heaven Allows. Check them out!

UPDATE
I just read this great synopsis taken from Criterion and I obviously could not have said it better:
“Jane Wyman is a repressed wealthy widow and Rock Hudson is the hunky Thoreau-following gardener who loves her in Douglas Sirk’s heartbreakingly beautiful indictment of 1950s small-town America. Sirk utilizes expressionist colors, reflective surfaces, and frames-within-frames to convey the loneliness and isolation of a matriarch trapped by the snobbery of her children and the gossip of her social-climbing country club chums.”






Pamela Meyer

This fascinating, eye-opening TED talk by Pamela Meyer has inspired me to become a lie spotter; to always find out the truth and to never be deceived. Meyer calls lying a deception epidemic in our society and explains why we lie and how we can know when people are lying to us.

Some highlights:
-Studies show that we may be lied to 10-200 times a day.
-Strangers lie 3 times within the first 10 minutes of meeting each other.
-We lie more to strangers than we do to co-workers.
-Extroverts lie more than introverts.
-Men lie 8 times more about themselves than they do other people.
-Women lie more to protect other people.
-An average married couple lies to each other 1 out of every 10 interactions.
-If you’re single, you lie 1 out of every 3 interactions.

“Lying is an attempt to bridge the gap; to connect our wishes and our fantasies about who we wish we were, how we wish we could be, with what we’re really like.”

“Lying is a cooperative act… A lie has no power whatsoever by its mere utterance. Its power emerges when someone else agrees to believe the lie.”

Amazing. I love this!

Baby Chameleon

I’m obsessed with these adorable photos by Igor Siwanowicz of a baby chameleon.

TOO CUTE!






Happy Halloween

We at the house of Blood and Friendship would like to thank everyone who came to our Spooky party this last Saturday. We had the time of our lives and even though I “unintentionally went to bed” before some guests even arrived, I’m sure they had fun too. The spook alley was a huge hit (sorry if I scared you!) and Julia, Angela, Brian were huge helpers. I love you guys!

Everyone’s costumes were intensely perfect and I really wish the night would have lasted longer. It seemed like it lasted 20 minutes; it was just too much fun. I also wish I would have taken more pics. :’(

Here are a few of the pics from the night. They’re pretty great. I wish it were Halloween every day!

Me as Lambchop and Taylor as Shari Lewis


Kristen as a scary zombie! AMAZING makeup award!


Cassie, Kaylene, and the Mormon Tabernacle Choir


Erin as a porcelain doll (or Whatever Happened to Baby Jane!)


Shanthi as a wise owl. SO CUTE!


Angela as art nouvavavavavaveaum!


Jurd and Megan as pirates and Derek as a McNugget! CUTE!

Egg Wonk

A few days ago we found this wonky egg in our coop, thanks to Flo or Gertie. We kept it in our fridge for a little bit but soon realized that none of us would ever dare eat it. After a little bit of research, I found that there exists a long list of chicken-egg oddities including blood spots (seen it), double yolks (not yet seen it), shell-less eggs that feel like water balloons (gross!), and perhaps the craziest egg one might encounter which is an egg within another egg. It’s like you crack open an egg and voilà, another egg! CRAZY! Suddenly our lumpy egg doesn’t seem so weird.

But look at it! It’s so freaky!


Alfie Doo

I’d like to say that I hate being one of those people who gushes over their dog, but I’m not. I LOVE IT. Alfie seriously cracks me up sometimes. Like in this video with Taylor where he goes berserk for no real good reason.

My Mushroom Burial Suit

I really loved this TED talk by artist, Jae Rhim Lee about modern practices in how we treat our dead and all the toxic chemicals involved in the postmortem process.

So interesting! I love her suit.

Whiskey & Pecans

I’m jealous of all everyone that lives close to a Jeni’s Ice Cream shop because they just announced this new flavor Whiskey & Pecans. SIGN ME UP! NOW!

Jeni’s is THE BEST!




Zero

I thought this short-animated film was pretty cute.

Check it out. :)

Underwater

These lovely clips of life underwater make me really happy and I just wanted to post them here. They make me really love this amazing planet.

Gorgeous!

One Day on Earth

Taylor

We celebrated Taylor’s 27th birthday a few weeks ago with a fun dinner at his workplace, Smith. His co-workers actually came out and sang to him and it was really sweet and hilarious. They were so cute. Afterwards we met friends at Twilight Exit and it got pretty hoppin’ for a Monday night.

I think the biggest hit of the night were our coordinated outfits. Taylor planned it all and it was pretty awesome that the rainbow worked out.

Happy Birthday, Taylor! Here’s your haiku:

salty, summer air
reading stories on blankets
desert animals

I love you!






Back in the Swing of Things

As I approached October 5th of this year, I felt a huge sense of sadness, relief and even excitement. The one-year anniversary of my mom’s passing obviously made me sad, but I also felt relieved to have survived this last year as it has been the most difficult year of my life. The “new normal” isn’t so strange and the ground beneath my feet finally feels like it’s starting to stabilize once again.

I recently returned from a trip to Utah which turned out to be a great experience. There wasn’t anything new for me to adjust to. I visited my family, attended a wedding, drank Diet Pepsi with Monica, chatted with Christy over sandwich prices and boys, and placed flowers on my mom’s headstone in Centerville Cemetery. The “new normal” finally feels normal, and I’m excited about that.

This last year, I needed to grieve, mourn, be “blah” and do whatever I wanted. But I’ve decided that I’m going to challenge myself this year, push myself a little harder to take better care of my health, my relationships, and my life in general.

So, back to blogging!

Isn’t this cute?